What needs to be solid before multiplication starts
Multiplication is repeated addition, so a child who hasn't fully grasped addition — especially carrying — will struggle to see why multiplication works, not just how to calculate it.
Before drilling times tables, have your child solve a few problems like '4+4+4' and ask what operation would get the same answer faster. That one question does more for understanding than a week of flashcards.
Don't memorize the times tables in order
Starting from the 2, 5, and 10 tables gives kids an early sense of success, since these follow the clearest, most visible patterns — much friendlier to a first attempt than starting at the 1s and grinding through in sequence.
Once those three are solid, the 3s and 4s come next; save the 7s, 8s, and 9s for last — they have the least obvious patterns and take the longest to feel automatic.
Let them feel that division is multiplication in reverse
Instead of introducing division as a brand-new operation, connect it directly to a multiplication fact your child already knows: '3 times 4 is 12, so 12 divided by 3 is 4.'
Splitting real objects — crackers, blocks, coins — into equal groups makes the meaning of division click faster than working only with written problems.
When to move on to long division and multi-digit multiplication
Only introduce multi-digit multiplication and long division once single-digit multiplication facts come out quickly and reliably — pushing the written algorithm too early just adds a new procedure on top of a shaky foundation.
When your child starts giving the answer to single-digit problems without visibly counting, that's usually the signal that they're ready for the next step.
Common mistakes, and how to help without discouraging
Confusing similar-looking facts like 6×7 and 6×8, or making careless errors in the borrowing steps of long division, isn't a sign your child isn't ready — it usually just means more repetition, not more difficulty.
Instead of marking an answer wrong and moving on, ask your child to explain how they got that number; walking back through their own steps helps them find and fix the mistake themselves far more often than a correction does.